The Pretty Paper by Caitlin Wilson

The Pretty Paper by Caitlin Wilson

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The Pretty Paper by Caitlin Wilson
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I Am Woman
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I Am Woman

My version of feminism

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Apr 04, 2025
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I Am Woman
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There is a power in being a woman—a quiet strength that has carried me through every season of my life. It is a power rooted in resilience, in intuition, in the ability to create and nurture. It is in the way we build, the way we heal, and the way we rise, again and again.

I have lived many versions of myself as a woman: a daughter, a sister, a friend, a wife, a mother, a creator, a dreamer. I have seen my body change and transform—not just physically, but in ways that go beyond the surface. I have felt weak and I have felt powerful. I have questioned myself and I have stood unshaken. But through it all, I have come to understand that strength is not about perfection—it is about embracing every part of who we are.

Motherhood taught me that. It taught me that beauty is not about fitting into a mold but about being comfortable in your own skin. It showed me that strength is not about how much you can carry alone, but how you open your arms to love and be loved. I have daughters who look up to me, and I want them to know that their power is limitless. That they do not have to shrink to fit the expectations of others. That they are worthy, just as they are.

Self-care is a radical act of empowerment. As women, we are often told to give and give until there is nothing left. But I have learned that taking care of myself is not selfish—it is necessary. Moving my body, finding joy in exercise, nourishing my soul, and making space for rest is how I remind myself that I matter, too.

Being a woman is not always easy. We are tested, we are challenged, we are underestimated. But we are also unbreakable. And when we stand together, when we lift each other up, when we own our stories, we become unstoppable.

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Society often teaches dreamers and achievers to make themselves small, to shrink their ambitions so they don’t make others uncomfortable. Confidence is often mistaken for arrogance, and living fully can invite criticism from those who are afraid to do the same. Women, in particular, are told to dim their light, to not take up too much space, to be agreeable rather than bold. But I have learned that playing small does not serve the world, and hiding my gifts does not make me humble—it makes me invisible. I refuse to apologize for dreaming big, for embracing my life with passion, and for stepping fully into who I was created to be. The ones who criticize are often the ones who fear their own power. True confidence is not about proving anything to others; it is about standing firm in your worth.

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